FROZEN LAKE GEORGE. Imagine stepping on this huge lake in upstate New York. Chris surprised me with a little weekend in Lake George for our anniversary. Mind you, winter this year was very brutal and it was very chilly in upstate NY.
I remember stepping on the lake, and I was filled with excitement because I’ve never set foot on a frozen lake before. There were activities for families, as there was a festival there in February. I’ve heard that Lake George is very beautiful during the summer and I hope to be back soon!
Here are other pictures from our trip:
Imagine diving in such brutal temperatures!
In response to The Daily Post’s weekly photo challenge: “Motion.”
Alas, after almost three years, I find myself in the same black hole that I was trying to escape from. There it is again – the feeling of of the familiar, the feeling of being a small fish in a big pond.
Malcom Gladwell posed a very interesting question in his book “David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants” – would you be better off being a small fish in a big pond or big fish in a small pond? We base our judgments based on those in proximity to us. There are times that I catch myself comparing myself and what I’ve accomplished to the people around me, to my colleagues, and my batchmates from college. And this leads to a very poor self-concept and can be very dangerous.
New York City is a very competitive pond that I’ve chosen to swim at and to grow up with. There are questions like, how are they able to get that job, and not me? I have the same abilities (and maybe better skilled), but why didn’t I get that job? Sometimes, I feel very much overwhelmed and pressured (but mostly pressured) to succeed and to get ahead in terms of my career. At this point in my life, I am an underdog, I am an outsider – the only way to get ahead would be to do what the Goliaths of this world refuse to do.
A very wise man once told me that people are different, and so there cannot be agreements in the absolute sense. We’re bombarded with ideas of uniqueness, of setting ourselves apart from the crowd, and of being successful at a very young age. But to what end?
Success, then, depends on how you define it. It can be in monetary terms, or in terms of being able to help others or bringing smiles to the faces of underprivileged. This definition is something that I grapple with – what do I want out of life? What do I want to do in the future? These are questions that I still seek an answer to. These are the questions that I also had three years ago.
I am but a small fish in a big pond called New York City. I am an even smaller fish in the sea of finance, where everyone is aggressive and very much eager to beat the next person. In this journey of transition, I hope that I won’t lose touch with what I hold dear and to not lose sight of what’s more important.
I am a small fish with nothing but my dreams – all I need is an opportunity to translate my potential into something concrete and real. I find hope in the knowledge that better things are yet to come, and that some things are withheld from us since we are better placed in situations where we can grow the most.
Being solitary, however, plays a very important role in my life. I’m neither outspoken nor outgoing; I’m reflective and I’m more of a thinker. Above all, I treasure every moment that I am preoccupied with my thoughts. I love taking long walks and taking in the beauty of everything I see. It’s surprising that despite its hustle and bustle, New York City has a lot of parks and museums that I could just go to whenever I want to be alone.
After exploring Niagara Falls (click here for my previous post about the beauty that is Niagara Falls), we headed for the Thousand Islands Region in Alexandria Bay, NY where we ventured on a boat cruise along the St. Lawrence River.
The place was packed when we went there – a lot of tour groups were scheduled to board the boat with us. It’s hard to take photos with tourists snapping at the same landmark, at the same time. Apparently, the Thousand Islands Region and the cruise itself were a top tourist attraction in upstate NY.
The Thousand Islands region is home to the (filthy) rich and famous. I wonder how it feels like to live in your own castle, in your own island. The Alster Tower was intended for the entertainment of guests visiting the island. The Boldt Castle is a 120-room Rhineland-style castle – George Boldt, general manager of the famed Waldorf-Astoria Hotel in NYC, and his family spent many summers in this private home.
About 6-8 hours of travel from NYC, Niagara Falls refers to the three waterfalls found in the border of Ontario, CA and upstate New York, USA: Horseshoe Falls, American Falls, and the Bridal Veil Falls. It’s interesting that the combined power of the Niagara Falls is unbeatable in the world!
Before we headed out to board the Maid of the Mist, we first went into the Prospect Point Park Observation Tower and were given a preview of what is to come!
We boarded the Maid of the Mist boat from the NY side of the Niagara River and were provided with blue raincoats. We sailed through the mist right up to the base of the three waterfalls. What a thrilling (and wet) ride!
Hmm, I wonder if Niagara falls is more beautiful from the Canadian side. Nevertheless, Niagara Falls is one of the most amazing things I’ve seen in this lifetime. If you happen to be in New York or in the East Coast, I think the drive up to Niagara Falls is all worth it.