Hope has always been my companion.
It’s funny how life sometimes throws you in situations that leave you no choice but to grow. You will reach new inflection points that cause you to question your previously-held beliefs. You will, as I’ve mentioned to my office mate, “be so frustrated that all you can do is to smile, think happy thoughts, and do better than your best”.
Note that while others would view this as a sign of resignation and weakness, keep faith that this is a source of strength.
Quite the contrary, you may say. But in that moment of resignation, immerse yourself fully and observe how every bone, how every muscle in your body reacts to the situation. Then take a deep breath – you know in yourself that in that moment, there is really nothing you can do. Acceptance is the first step of growing up. Wallow in your sadness and bitter tears – but keep it short.
Then take action. Find comfort in the thought that the best is yet to come, that this is yet another challenge that you should overcome.
I sincerely believe that in the future, as I look back at this particular inflection point, I’d smile and be thankful that I’ve been through it.
Come on Life, bring it on.